Question About Soul-mate

by Rob
(Virginia)

Question:

I been known this woman for 3.5 yrs. I believe that the Holy Spirit spoke to me 2 yrs ago that she would be my wife. We go to church together, we been to about 3 outings in those three years. She been in college for those years so we didn't have a chance to spend some time together. I told her how much I care and love her, but she told me that she don't feel that same way about me but she can possible grow into it. I loved, support, and encourage her all the times. She just graduated from College and now hopefully we can spend more time together ... but I do have one problem since I'm a Christian ... I don't have a lot of friends because I choose my friends wisely. I get lonely and sometimes I call her a lot in the same day which she don't like but I been really trying to get better. I know you can't make a woman love you .. she have a free will. But I truly believe that the Lord spoke to me saying she is my soul-mate.

I need some advice to love her the right way and how to make the relationship better.