Michael T. there is nothing impossible for G-d. However, he does not part with us saying we are not going to do something and then we forget and we do it again. He wants you to repent from your heart and ask him forgiveness from your heart and also to your wife and not from your lips. Actions speak louder than words. Though the WORD of GOD Cuts like a two-edged sword. Read Hebrews 4:12. G-d does not approve for marriage divorce or separation. Please kneel down both you and your wife and do this asap and read the bible together and attend a temple together after you pray to G-d to tell you where to go. The love of G-d surpasses all. If your wife does not agree to do this right away. You can also pray for her so she will and I am too.