I know that a marriage is tough but if you both can work this out I believe you will be more in love than you ever were before. I myself am going through the beginning of a divorce. My wife doesn't want to be with me anymore. I pray that the Lord will allow her to stay in my life but that is up to Him.Both people have to want to work at it. if one wants to leave,(as in my case)then it won't work.Do whatever it takes! But in the end you can't make someone love you. If they want to leave then you have to let them go. I have two children ages 13 and 10. I am beside myself with the most unimaginable pain and heartache that I have ever felt.I am willing to do anything to have the marriage work, but so far she is unwilling. She isn't a Christian but I am. I hope you two can work this out. there is nothing more important than family and the love that a man and a woman can have for each other.I will pray for your family and your marriage