Dearest Tom....may you be blessed with a new LOVE of greater light to your heart than you could ever imagine...may the sorrow/pain that you feel by the loss of your current love dissolve into nothingness...it was just a stepping stone towards more love to come....bless YOU...and be willing and open to receive more love...as someone has reminded me over and over again....ALL is in perfect and divine order for each of us...there are no mistakes...take care, my friend...