Just a little confirmation...

by Miss Independent

Ok. I am a single mother of two. God provides everything for us, and we are never lacking. I have been separated from my ex for about three years now; I have dated, but nothing serious. I started praying for a husband someone that shared my values and would serve God with me and love me and my children. I have recently met a wonderful man, he also has two children my children’s ages. He treats me with respect, he is a God fearing man, and he is very honest. The only problem is he has made it very clear he does not and will not ever get into a relationship again. He says he spent 8 or 9 years in a very terrible relationship and that I wouldn’t understand. I want what God wants for me, so if this isn’t part of his plan I will understand. I have had two dreams in the past couple of months. Once where I was going to talk to him but there were lots of people in the way…and a bunch of junk I had to move to get to him. Then when I did get to him I told him I wanted to be with him…he said it would happen..it was coming..that I should wait and be patient. Last night I had another dream where I was going to see him, but I was stuck in a traffic jam. He is telling me he will never be in a relationship..but in God’s word it says to walk by faith and not by sight..and Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. I really just need guidance from the lord…I really like this man..and would like to get to know him more..as long as it is part of God’s plan…I don’t know what to pray or where to start..or if I should even be perusing it when he made it clear he never wants to be in a relationship again.. but he makes me feel good about myself..he respects me and my babies…he is different from any man I have ever been interested in..